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What Chinese Women Want: Self-fulfillment



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What makes a woman happy? Power, money, love, sex?

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In fact, self-fulfillment ranks the highest, for more than 60 percent of the respondents in a recent survey.


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The survey was conducted by the Yueji.Self, a Chinese-language magazine jointly launched this month by the Chinese-language Women of China magazine and the New York-based magazine publisher Conde Nast Publications.

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"The high marks for self -fulfillment are inspiring and encouraging," Li Yinhe, a noted *ologist and professor at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, said.


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"It shows big progress. More and more women want to achieve their life value, which eclipses the importance of the private life for women.



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xiàn

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"When women start to value self fulfillment, they become more equal to men."

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wèi

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In China, the traditional mindset is that men live for their careers and women live for love.


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Although only about 22.5 percent surveyed prioritized love as the big happiness maker, it doesn't mean that Chinese women no longer believe in love, Li said.

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However, it demonstrated that love was no longer the most important factor for a woman to be happy in China. This is perhaps reflected in the growing trend that many Chinese women are opting to remain single.

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ràng

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lè
de
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zhòng
yào
yīn
sù


While the dependence on love for happiness has dampened, according to the survey, so has sex.

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Only about 2.2 percent of Chinese women consider sex the most valuable factor to a happy woman.

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The reason, Li said, was that the word was stereotyped with negative meanings.

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"A good woman should not like sex," she said.


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"Love is a beautiful word. But power, money and sex all represent the negative things."

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So it is understandable when only 0.6 percent of women chose power, the lowest among all options, the survey showed.

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The survey is also the first of its kind to be carried out in 15 cities on the Chinese mainland, Hong Kong and Taiwan province.

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It surveyed 24,107 women aged from 25 to 35 from December 2006 and March 2007.


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